Advance Directives

As adults, there are decisions that we all need to think about in the case of sudden impairment due to accidents, or health crises, or serious illness, but these are often neglected until it is too late. Every adult in a family should prepare advance directives.

Advance directives allow you to communicate the type of medical care you want if you become too sick to make your own decisions. Yes, preparing these documents ahead of time is a chore, but think of it as a gift to your family members. Without an advance directive, they might have to decide what is best for you without your input.

Be prepared to be asked if you have these documents when you go in for a surgery or a procedure requiring anesthesia:

• A living will states your wishes should various medical scenarios occur, like stroke or coma.

• A medical power of attorney (sometimes known as a durable power of attorney), appoints someone as your health care proxy or a healthcare representative to make healthcare decisions for you when you are unable to speak for yourself. A proxy can be a family member or trusted individual who will carry out your wishes. Your proxy is also allowed to access your medical records.

You should also let those close to you know where your important papers are stored and what your wishes are for burial, memorial services or celebrations. Conversations surrounding these difficult decisions are sensitive and deeply personal, and there are cancer organizations that provide resources or counseling to help you have these conversations with loved ones.