Why is it so difficult to ask for or receive help? When we need it the most, it seems so much harder to let someone help. I felt so bad asking--or even accepting the kindness that was offered. When I finally asked, it made all the difference.

I had to learn that what is “normal" and known about a person’s cancer changes over time.

When my husband, Jim, was diagnosed with NET cancer, the only idea I was entertaining was that of complete recovery.