Communication is a two-way street, and you can influence the traffic in both directions. As a patient, try to organize your thoughts and questions ahead of communicating with a healthcare provider. Prioritize your questions and concerns. Answer your provider’s questions as fully as you can. Listen closely to what he or she is saying and repeat it back if you are unsure of its meaning. Work toward open and honest conversation, which is not always easy when discussing personal matters.
One of the most important things when patients are going through their NET journey is the honest conversation they need to have with their providers. When you’re able to establish that honesty up front,
it really helps to build trust within the relationship. When both sides are able to open up, and listen to each other, you can start to understand each other fully.
--Daneng Li, MD
Other issues that can affect your health, including stress and depression, can arise during cancer treatment and need to be addressed. Be sure to share these and any other concerns with your
physician even if they may not seem to be related to your disease. The same goes for embarrassing symptoms like diarrhea and excessive gas. These could be due to a number of factors, including hormone oversecretion, insufficient absorption of enzymes and other nutrients, or changes in your body following a surgical resection. Your doctor needs to know what’s going on with you and what, if anything, changes over the course of your disease in order to adjust your treatment or recommend other remedies that will improve your quality of life.
It is quite common to have difficulty remembering what has been said
in an appointment. There is a lot on the line, and the emotional stress can affect your recall. It can be helpful for a family member or friend to accompany you and take notes. With current technology, it is also possible to record the appointment on your phone or tablet device. Always ask your doctor for permission before doing this. This is especially helpful when a loved one or caregiver cannot attend the
appointment and offers the opportunity to review and debrief together at a later time.
It is usually a process to encourage good communication
and help patients feel comfortable speaking up. I do ask a lot of detailed questions and take my time to listen to the patient. As well, I personally appreciate when family members come with the patient to a visit, as it helps all of us to enhance communication and navigate through difficult topics.
--Boris Naraev, MD, PhD
Do not assume that all of the healthcare providers on your team are on the same page. Try to confirm that your primary or lead physician
is keeping your other doctors informed. You may have to obtain and share your records with them if this is not happening. If the provider uses a web portal to communicate with patients, be sure to set it up and try it out right away. Find out if emails are an appropriate way to ask questions. Learn what each provider’s stated
response time is so you know when to follow up if you haven’t heard back. Ask how you can reach a provider after hours in case you have an urgent question or issue.
Taking care of neuroendocrine cancer is really a
team effort. Unfortunately, communication can be
difficult, and we frequently rely on the patient and
family to help interface between specialists and local health
professionals. Never be shy about following up on documents
and reports. Help us by keeping good records and bringing
them to your visits.
--Eric Liu, MD, FACS